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Adults, 18 and over, who’d like a serious relationship and would rather be introduced by someone who knows them. It’s invite-only, and open wherever you live.
Through a friend who’s already here, or by joining the list. We invite a few people at a time as circles form, so we can’t promise when — but we’ll write when there’s room, and not before.
Everywhere. Introductions aren’t limited to one city — you tell us whether you’d prefer someone nearby, are open to someone elsewhere, or would move for the right person.
18 or over. Every member is verified by phone, email and photo.
No — and we’re careful never to imply it. Every member is 18+ and verified. Connectors describe character; safety is our job.
No. Only the Connector who made a specific introduction knows it was proposed, and they never learn who said what.
Three is where it starts, because one view of a person is never enough. Friends, siblings, parents, cousins and colleagues all count. You can finish your conversation and profile first and invite people as you think of them — each needs only ten minutes and a browser.
No. They answer from a private link — no app, no account — and each chooses who may see their words.
Rarely. Some months, never. We’d rather wait for a good introduction than send you a mediocre one.
Soon, two Connectors who trust each other can make an introduction together — each only vouching for the person they know.
Then Mutually isn’t for you as someone being introduced — but you might be exactly who a friend needs in their circle. Connectors can be single, married, or anything in between.
To notice possibilities, and to help write down what you and your circle say. It never decides: a person who knows you both chooses whether to make an introduction, and you choose whether to meet.
Free while we grow. Later, a simple membership for active Seekers. Never boosts, never paying for visibility.
Yes, if you invite them. They offer insight, never a veto. You always choose.
If the message came from Mutually and you know the person, yes. Open the link in that email or text — it’s private to you.
Pause any time. Delete any time — everything, including what your circle wrote, is gone within 30 days.