Safety & privacy

Discretion is the product.

Especially when your friends know each other’s friends. Here’s exactly who can see what.

Connectors you invite know you’re here. They never see who you’re introduced to.
What	You	Your circle	The other person
That you’re on Mutually	Yes	Only people you invite	Only in an introduction
Your photos	Yes	No	Only in an introduction
What your circle wrote	As each person allows	Only their own words	Only if marked “with my name”
That you were considered	Only if vouched	Only the Connector asked	Never, unless mutual
Your yes or no	Yes	Never	Only if both say yes
Your debrief	Yes	Never	Never

Being vouched for isn’t a safety check
Every member is 18+ and verified by phone, email and photo. Connectors describe character; they carry no responsibility for anyone’s conduct.
Block, report, leave — instantly
One tap from any conversation. Every report is reviewed by a person within 24 hours, and every decision is logged.
Sensitive by default
Faith, health and orientation need explicit consent, are used only to find introductions, and can be deleted on their own.

Being vouched for isn’t a safety check