Mutually
Terms of Use
Last updated 28 September 2026 · Version terms-2026-09-28-draft
This is a plain-language draft of what we expect from members and what members can expect from us. It has not yet been reviewed by counsel, and it is not a binding agreement. The final terms will replace it before launch, and members will be asked to accept them.
Who can use Mutually
- You must be 18 or over.
- Mutually is invite-only. An invitation is personal to the person it was sent to.
- You may have one account, and it must be about you.
What Mutually is — and isn’t
- Mutually suggests introductions. A person who knows you both decides whether to make one, and you decide whether to meet.
- Being vouched for isn’t a safety check. People who describe you speak to character; they carry no responsibility for anyone’s conduct.
- We verify every member’s phone, email and photo, but we can’t promise anything about how someone will behave. Please read the Safety centre before you meet anyone.
Your part
- Be truthful about yourself.
- Treat everyone with respect, in the app and when you meet, and follow the Community Standards.
- Keep what others share with you private. Don’t copy, screenshot or pass on anyone’s photos, words or details.
- Don’t use Mutually for anything commercial, and don’t try to search, scrape or browse the network.
People who describe you
When you invite people into your circle, you’re asking them to write about you. Only invite people who know you and would be comfortable being asked.
Ending things
You can pause or delete your account at any time. We may pause or remove an account that breaks these terms or the Community Standards; when we do, we’ll tell you why where we can, and you can appeal.
Cost
Mutually is free while we grow. If that changes, we’ll tell you clearly beforehand, and nothing will be charged without your agreement.
Contact
Questions about these terms: support@mutually.lol.